I try to do the same the older I get. Loosening my grip on the tethers of my life story and my expectations. It is like bringing back that sense of wonder in the world that we had when we were younger that we cast away in the deluded pursuit of adulthood.

When we accept things as they are ,we are able to choose what way we experience them. What you resist persists. Like most things, it taks practice and you won't always get it right.